Life Coach

Robert, You left this positive shaky feeling inside of me. I feel like screaming, but don't want to disturb the neighbors.
Is it silly to tell you how much I love you, for everything that you gave me as a gift? Now, I would pay you hundreds times more that what you charge for this. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Alexandra, Johannesburg, South Africa

Thank you Robert - you are a gift to us all. And, my inner self-doubt and fear of failure have actually disappeared. This is truly amazing!
Steve, Phoenix, USA

I began suddenly getting loads of new business out of nowhere! I pulled in more cash than in last 3 months combined!
It's almost like magic! Thank you!
Christina Delores, Personal Trainer, Nevada

Hello,
I have been thinking about sending you another email, and now am in a good place to position it well.

I was talking to my husband about you, and the one thing that I was trying to get across to him is what I sense from you in so many ways, that you are free in the truest sense of the word.

The fact that you open your home to people like me and help others improve every aspect of their lives, is testimony to this freedom. You are a good person in the truest sense of the word and we are all lucky as your clients to have met you.

Kindest regards,
Bongiwe Nzimande, Johannesburg, South Africa

...Having been in an abusive relationship, I’ve been carrying a lot of emotional baggage. The nightmare lasted for four years but HAD I been strong enough I would have ended it within the first six months.

The reason I stayed was because of all the emotional blackmail and threats of committing suicide, I lived in constant fear of what he might do to me or to himself. In those four years I went through constant verbal, emotional, mental and physical abuse. It was a true miracle when we finally ended the relationship, but the months to follow were still hard as he kept calling and threatening me.

Now five years down the line he still calls out of the blue to say that he is sorry and that he loves me. Hearing his voice immediately gets me into a state of panic and all the negative emotions come flooding back to me. I would stay upset for days having flashbacks of all he put me though.

After having spoken to you and having done timeline therapy I felt a sense of relief but was never a 100% sure that I had let go of the past. No test could have been better than today when Ashley phoned me out of the blue. At first I panicked when I heard his voice, but within seconds I went into a state of calmness and nothing he said could upset me. Within an hour I had even forgotten he had called.

IT WORKED, THANK YOU ROBERT! :)
Andy, Pretoria, South Africa
 

Hi Robert,
People need to know about you and what you can do for them. Take this email as a testimonial of some sort, and if it helps few people deciding to see you – than great!

Talk about instant gratification.

2 weeks ago I was struggling with what we call ‘emotional baggage’.
I had severe confidence issues, paranoia and insecurities.

For example, I’d go out for a night of partying with friends... have an amazing time... and spend the remainder of my weekend/week panicking, stressing, worrying about the entire event. What I said, what he/she said. What they meant by it. Were they offended?

The slightest emotional event ... an upper or a downer (i.e. watching a sad movie, christenings in church) would have me crying. And not just cry, sobbing. I always wrote this down to a somewhat traumatic life journey (like I said... emotional baggage).

Mix these emotional ingredients together (extreme paranoia, stress and sadness) - and you get one mixed up person.

So ... what changed? I met with Robert.
He asked me if I could just imagine a life without these limitations where I could achieve and be anything and everything I want.

‘Imagine’, he said... ‘instant gratification’.

Instant? I imagined that burden lifting from my life, and I wanted, craved the freedom.

At first I didn’t believe it, but after my initial talk with Robert... I had a pretty good week. I felt more confident, I made progress on my one task. Where I had left the previous Friday, feeling despondent, depressed and doubtful, I now conquered my fear. Asked questions, learnt – and I ended up completing more than 75% of my required outcome.

Something changed. I knew it was Robert... he had said something to me by just talking to me. I knew it. So I decided to find out what life could be like without the unwarranted stress, paranoia and fear. How life could be if I just believed in myself again.

2 weeks seems like such a short time. But in this time, I have learnt better and performed better at my job than ever. I actually dared to ask a question at work, something I always feared of. I would spam my mind with ideas that my boss will realize how stupid I was, and not competent enough for this job. Instead, I dared to present my problem, he loved my attitude, offered to pay for the course which I needed, and he promised a raise when I am done, as I’ll be more valuable to the company from there on! What a change this is for me, I ended up with a raise!!!

But the simplest and foolproof experience that I can use to emphasise this experience – was my day today. I spent 2 hours with Robert last night, and we targeted my limiting belief that I was not a morning person. We specifically worked on getting up as soon as my alarm went off. Instead of just snoozing and snoozing until it’s too late.

This morning, my alarm went off at 5:30. I got up. I was instantly awake, and I went to the gym for 2 hours.
If you knew me at all – I wish you could just phone my husband – this would have been and impossible, unthinkable, unimaginable task for me in the past few years.

I guess you could say that the emotional experience happened on the same level metaphorically.
I used to struggle to get up in life. I just couldn’t get that break, understand everything (I was asleep in life) - I put off my dreams for the rat race (snoozed), until it was too late... Robert made me get up!!

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Robert!!!
Melanie, Midrand, South Africa

Hey Robert,

Just wanted to let you know that I had to give a demo this morning for two sites with MC… so its not a large group of people I need to talk to.
But I have also never done a demo before in my life….. Now in the old situation I would have been a mess and shaking… stuttering, losing my place etc. It would also have felt like I was shouting at everyone, when instead they all think I’m whispering.

HOWEVER, today was completely different, I was calm, cool and collected (Specially after having another nights undisturbed beauty sleep). So what if I had never done a demo before… just wing it. It’s nothing different, just like explaining how a site works to someone who is a little slow at computers – just talk and click….

I know this is a small thing as some may say, but to me it was a mountain that I overcame thanks to your help…. Again thank you and thank you !!!!

Really this has made a huge difference in my life. I create a wonderful life for myself, and all thanks to you. Hope you have a fantastic day….

Regards,
Angel, Pretoria, South Africa

Dear Robert,
I’ve been thinking a LOT since I got home. I realized that it’s okay for me to be me. That I don’t have to protect and hide myself anymore, I CAN BE ME! I think that nailed it for me.

I can’t begin to explain to you what effect this had on me. My whole body was tingling; it was as if wave after wave of goosebumps hit me. I mean, the exact thing we talked about of me being trapped inside, not feeling as though I’m projecting ME to the world, is now GONE! I truly think that having faith in myself and realizing it’s okay to be ME, will bring my weight and body into alignment too.

I can’t begin to describe to you what I feel like this morning. It feels like I’m on a journey, and an exciting one at that. You know these movie scenes where there’s a girl in a field full of grass and flowers twirling around with happiness because she’s in love. Well, that’s how I’m feeling, like twirling round and round with happiness! (never imagined one could just be this happy without being in love)

I’m on an amazing road of discovery, discovering myself most of all. I can’t begin to thank you enough for facilitating this process!

Nelly, Pretoria, South Africa

Dear Robert,

I never used to think before about my life. Life, or rather time, that was passing was something that was meant to be, without me interfering with it. My dreams, desires or goals were things that could come trough, with a bit of a luck, or not, and I never thought that I could be directly responsible for them.

The only thing that I was aware of was that meanwhile, somehow, I’ve lost myself.
It felt so bad, to be lost, with no dreams, with no desires, with just enough strength to face a new day because of the responsibilities which were waiting for me. I was wandering aimlessly through my life, lacking a real purpose.

Then You told me that my outer world reflects the state of my inner world. You said that I could control my destiny… I always thought that destiny is unfolding according to the choices one makes, and I felt that learning from you was the best choice I could make, that my life would never be the same, and that something marvelous was about to happen to me. What a journey that was! It was an amazing awakening.

I now understand that what lies behind me and what lies in front of me is nothing compared to what lies within me. Thank you Robert, for being my guide, thank you for reviling myself to me, thank you for showing me how unique and special each and every one of us is.

Aleksandra, Luxembourg

Hi Robert,
I slept like a stone last night! My cousin tells me that we had a thunder storm during the night and that they couldn't sleep because of the storm. But I didn't hear a thing… Must have been my tired brain…
Must say I feel great today. There is a different motivation when I got up this morning to work. Now it's not just to get up and get the work done, it's get up and do the work so that I can win and move to a new level. So it's great, thank you!

I feel different altogether. My body and my mind seem to be in alignment with my future goals. I never had this kind of a focus and concentration. When I look into the future now, I can see clearly the goals that we set, and I am sooo certain of their outcome. As far as my mind is concerned, they happened already and the way I wanted them to happen. Certainty is something I never had before, not at this level!

I feel like a winner, fear is gone, and my thoughts are pure. No more procrastination, I am free of all limitations. And all this thanks to you! I’ll tell all my friends about you and the work that you do, this is just priceless!!!

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!

I’ll keep you updated…

Cheers
Michael, Centurion, South Africa
 

Hi Robert

This is a note to let you know how grateful I am to have you as a new friend, coach and inspiration in life.

You truly are a gift to the world we live in!

Through you and your teachings you are positively changing peoples lives, which in turn raises global consciousness.

You have freed my mind of the past, freed my mind of future uncertainties and I now see every challenge as an opportunity to learn and grow.

You have given me the power to love and believe in myself again as well as the confidence in knowing that I can achieve anything I put my mind to.

Thank you for helping me be the best me I can be!

Your friend for life
Cathy, Centurion, South Africa